This time of year we feel especially drawn to give. Giving to others is a way of deepening our community connections, offering our services to those in need without expectation, and allowing our potential for altruism to be expressed. “Giving is more important than receiving” is a quote that I recall learning as a small child. I’ve tried to model and teach this to my own children, but I also love getting gifts-especially symbols of appreciation. Why do we need to express and receive appreciation, symbolically, or not? Usually doing a job well is its own reward. Parenting comes to mind. You give your kids your time, energy, love. You watch them grow and blossom. It is enough. Then, when a little one comes in bearing a handmade card with sincere messages and images of appreciation – the tears begin to fall. There is such joy in giving and receiving. It doesn’t have to be materialistic-despite what the economists say we should do. Buying isn’t necessarily the best way to give. It is a legitimate venue for showing appreciation, but it isn’t the only option this holiday. Giving can be a creative endeavor-or a simple intuitive act of kindness. Receiving can also be an art-to open oneself to the love that is embodied in a gift-it makes your heart grow. It is okay to receive the affection, admiration, and appreciation of others – and to love yourself a bit more in the process.
